A friend of mine asked me what I thought of her getting involved with a married man. I didn't want to preach, but I had to say, "Don't do it!" Many a man has claimed that he didn't love his wife, and that he wasn't sleeping with her, simply to get into the other woman's pants. Please don't be that foolish. Odds are, he's lying to you. He has no plans to leave his wife, especially if he can have her and you too. Don't allow yourself to be used.