Ladies, having grown up with four boys, I was given advice on a daily basis. One of the things my brothers taught me was that when a man says the relationship is over, it is. Don’t beg him to stay because even if he does, you’ll have his body but not his heart. Let go and move on. I know it hurts, but better to hurt a little now and heal with dignity than to wait until he has taken your very soul and grieve in shame. The choice is yours.